Thai Girls Guide: How to Find & Impress Them

If you can handle the heat, Thai girls just might be your calling. One of Southeast Asia’s best countries for expatriates, Thailand has a lot to offer.

Warm weather, excellent food, a variety of locales from beaches to large cities. And finally – those amazing Thai girls. Some of the best looking and friendliest girls on the planet.

And today I am here to tell you more about girls in Thailand, so you know exactly what to expect when you land in this amazing country.

Thai Girls Make You Feel Like a King

Did you know that Thailand still keeps an actual king in power? Well, once you starting dating in Thailand, you’re going to feel like you are royalty, too.

Thai girls like to take good care of their man. This means that she’ll do everything in her power to make your time in her country comfortable.

If you put in just a little bit of effort with Thai Cupid and Tinder, you’ll have no shortage whatsoever of dates and even more fun with various girls out there.

Once you’ve started to date a Thai girl (even casually), she’ll start doing the little things for you.

Your apartment will be spotless because she insists on cleaning it. Your belly will be full because she insists on filling it with delicious Thai food. And that’s not all, of course!

In all seriousness, wrap it up fellas!

How to Meet Thai Girls

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Online dating is the name of the game when it comes to Thailand and Asia in general. They’re all plugged in and familiar with technology, and it’s just so easy.

There are two main ways to meet Thai girls online – Thai Cupid and Tinder.

Thai Cupid is by far the best way to meet them. Click here to visit the website now.

Yes, it costs a bit of money, but it’s absolutely worth it. If you pay the monthly membership fee, you’ll easily get at least a date a day from it.

That’s basically a dollar per date. Well worth it – because that measly amount stops a lot of guys from signing up for it.

This means girls get less messages and have to compete for YOU. Plus, they are impressed to see that you pay the premium to get a chance to talk to them and already put you on top of their list.

This is why I personally prefer Thai Cupid – less male competition, tons of amazing Thai girls to choose from and all of them actively interested in meeting you.

Now Tinder… does anything more need to be said? It’s used often, and girls on it want to hook up with a Farang (foreign fella). So by simply being from abroad gives you a massive advantage and you’ll have TONS of replies.

You’ll have to swift through those, of course, as there are still lots of scammers around… but you will surely not lack genuine girls either!

I personally guarantee if you use both of these mediums, you’ll easily set up anywhere from two to five dates a day.

Of course, this is not a numbers game and you will eventually have to settle down, but the idea is that it’s really easy to find a date in Thailand… or more.

But do focus on Thai Cupid if you want to reduce the amount of scammers and gold diggers to a minimum. That is priceless!

The Best Cities in Thailand to meet girls

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There’s a lot of good ones, but if you’re on a limited schedule, you’ll probably want to stick to the Big 3:

Bangkok is simply chaos. Think along the lines of New York City, except even dirtier, more crowded and even more nightlife oriented.

That being said, it’s an absolute blast. You can go out and drink until the sun comes up every night of the week if you so desire. Have in mind that your wallet very well may be empty soon, too.

The fast and furious pace of the Bangkok lifestyle can add up quickly if you’re not careful… but especially for the younger fellas out there, it’s surely a thing that has to be tried at least once if you’re in Thailand.

The Islands can be hit or miss. Many tourists and tons of gold diggers there. It’s a bit riskier in my opinion and I prefer to stay away from the islands if possible especially if you’re looking for a real, genuine relationship.

Chang Mai is located in the mountains north of Bangkok. It’s definitely more laid back, but far smaller than Bangkok. It is extremely popular among digital nomads and expats, so you’re going to be up against some serious competition.

But to help you out, I created a guide to Chiang Mai girls, so make sure you read it if you’re planning to stick to that amazing city.

Ditch the Stereotypes

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This point will be reiterated always – we are not in the bygone era where girls of the region are depicted as bar girls or ladyboys.

You should know that Thai women are well aware of these preconceptions and they find it offensive.

Sure, there’s plenty of those as well, but we’re here to talk about your regular Thai lady!

Once you have that out of the way, you can approach your date in a more appropriate way.

Attitude sets the tone of your relationship and letting your woman know that you’re not considering her as a toy and nothing more will kick it off on the right foot.

If you need extra help in making sure you hit all the right buttons and none of the wrong ones, check out this guide. Created by a woman who’s a dating expert, it will tell you all the secrets you need to know to instantly charm any Thai lady!

A woman from Thailand is a perfect person to spend your life with, so don’t just go there with the “player” mentality – keep your heart open too!

Greeting with Respect

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On the first real date, knowing the appropriate Thai greeting, the “Wai” is essential.

This is a very classic and essential Thai gesture where hands are clasped together mid-chest and you respectfully bow.

Dispense of the cheek-to-cheek, especially kissing as it is deemed inappropriate to kiss a Thai woman in public, particularly in smaller cities and more rural areas.

Even when in Bangkok, don’t try to be too liberal with your behavior. Treat others politely as well – food-service people, shopkeepers, security guards. And smile as often as possible!

A rude person will cause your girl to “lose face” – something completely undesirable to the culture in Thailand.

Gentlemanly Points

Thai men are exceptionally polite to women. You will be good in your book if you treat her with courtesy and even chivalry if you can so you can be a cut above the rest.

Take the initiative to ask her out in a respectable venue while on a first date. In line with this, remember that the guy always foots the bill in going out.

You don’t want to be labeled as cheap and besides, Thailand is thankfully a place where most things are very reasonably priced and your dollar will go a long way.

Be a gentlemen and you will score a ton of points with any woman in Thailand, no matter how hard to get she seems to be!

Thai Girl Characteristics

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After going through all the important details about, let’s check outthe most important characteristics of women in Thailand.

We all know how beautiful they are – but as you will see below, the same can be said about them on a personal level.

Family-Oriented Outlook

Girls in Thailand are by no means the subservient stereotype portrayed in movies. You will find them independent and with modern outlooks that take into consideration their culture and traditions.

Extremely family-oriented, you might find yourself needing to win her family’s approval as well, should your relationship venture into something more serious.

But for us Westerners, where families are divided and rarely meet, the Thai way of living with united, large families, is a joy to behold!

Loyal to a Fault

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While many might disagree, the right Thai woman is loyal to a fault and will stick to her man if she sees that he reciprocates her love.

Divorce or multiple boyfriends does not bode well with the local culture. You can expect many Thai girls to hold fast to this mindset as they do not want to be labeled as having been “played” by a foreigner.

Once you get into her good grace, though, you can simply forget about jealousy. Thai women are loyal and would never cheat on you.

Speak Softly, Love

Thai women are taught not to raise their voices unless necessary so you will find them speaking in soft voices on a normal basis.

We can say that they’re the total opposites of women from other areas of the world, like those in Colombia, who tend to put a lot of passion in everything, including the way they talk.

They expect you to do likewise, and not use harsh or boisterous tones if not warranted.

However, a caveat is when they are angered or provoked to the point of aggravation, they will gladly shed this trait and raise their voices.


Thai girls are some of the most beautiful, happy and kind girls in all of Asia – and probably the entire world. This combination makes Thailand an ideal place for a western guy looking to meet a foreign women.

I can’t recommend it enough. If you’ve got questions about Thailand or the women, leave them in the comments below.

PS: Make sure you’ve got your Thai Cupid ready to rock before you take off for Thailand!

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2 thoughts on “Thai Girls Guide: How to Find & Impress Them”

  1. hello, nice article but i’m wondering if you really went there. I’m living for 6 weeks already and it’s not as easy as you write. My tinder profile is amazing, even “too good to be true” for thailand as a girl told me.
    3 to 7 dates per week, i think it’s possible but it will take an enormous text game work.
    So far in my experience, most thai girls bring a lot of objections before meeting for the first time. And they may not be available very often.
    I found your article because i’m looking for text game advices for thailand. could you give me your opinion about that if you really stayed there for a while please?

    • This is why I recommend setting up a Thai Cupid profile at least a couple of weeks before arriving. Build up the relationship before arriving to increase your chances of meeting up.

      In a way, I would say that it’s better if she doesn’t want to meet up right away – this shows that the Thai girl you’re talking to is a genuine one, and not just a gold digger.

      Text them often and switch to audio/video ASAP as this builds up trust too. These girls love to text, so make sure to keep up the pace and always be engaging, fun and ask plenty of questions about themselves, also being open on your side.


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